Anonymous asked:
I really really wanna read your new DCBB fic (I REALLY LOVE YOUR WRITING BTW) but like. I like knowing what to brace for going into fics in regards to top/bottom/switch tags... C-can I ask which way it's going in that fic...? >3>; I hate being 'that person', I'm sorry. I just like knowing what to expect going into fics is all, I swear.

hey, it’s cool. so there’s two sex scenes, both in a tent. both times dean and cas are frotting/rubbing face-to-face, kissing and cuddling. both scenes are semi-graphic (enough to warrant an NC-17 label). neither dean nor cas is distinctly “in control”, either time.

the first time (at night), they mutually initiate doing the do. cas is lying on top, and they pause in the middle for cas to reveal he’s an angel, and then talk about the state of the world. cas’ wings pop out during the big finale.

the second time (in the morning), dean’s on top (he initiates and guides them through it, but again, neither is distinctly in control - it’s just a mutual touchy-feely funtime).

later on in the story, cas mentions that he was nervous the first time, and although dean could’ve overwhelmed him, he let cas “lead” - as in, dean lay on his back, went at cas’ pace, and asked before doing things.

there’s no penetration, no domination, no kinky stuff (besides “whoa!!! you have wings omg”), no pet names, or language meant to belittle or demean either dean or cas, in either scene.

i hope that explains things!!

fic link: The Wireless (58k DCBB - a fluffy romantic solarpunk adventure!!! cas is a radio show host and dean is accidentally a prophet)

Anonymous asked:
do you not like bottom!cas?

I’m for switch!Dean and switch!Cas, but my default inclination is Dean happily bottoming with Cas. I think Cas probably doesn’t have a preference, so long as he’s with Dean.

oursweetprince:

Ways Dean and Cas have sex

Wall Sex: With Dean pressed tight against the nearest wall, his jeans still around one ankle as Cas holds him up entirely in his angelic arms. It’s Cas facing Dean so he can watch as Dean comes from the friction between their stomachs and as his arms loop around Cas’s neck, holding on for dear life as Cas pounds into him.

Role playing: Cowboys, cops, kittens. The list is endless. Dean is partial to the outlaw cowboy and the straight shooter sheriff. Cas loves the kitten role play. He loves dressing up in fine silks and carefully placing kitten ears on top of his head. It’s Cas needing Dean inside him like yesterday and it’s Cas purring as Dean rocks his softening cock into his come drenched hole.

Rushed/hurried secret sex: A moment alone is all it takes. It’s over before it really begins, their clothes still on as Dean and Cas rut against each other like horny teenagers. It’s coming from the first touch of skin on skin and holding hands for an hour afterwards because in life and death situations touch is too precious to give up.

Sleepy morning sex: Dean’s favourite. He wakes up hard and feels Cas’s erect cock pressing into his back. Dean grinds his ass back on to Cas’s crotch, whimpering as he catches his still stretched it hole. Cas is always grumpy in the mornings so he will mumble a few reluctant no’s before his hand is falling over Dean’s hip and he is inside of him. Someday that’s as far as it gets, others Dean fucks himself back on Cas’s cock as his body struggles to wake up. It’s half asleep declarations of love and praise and words which stayed hidden for so long. Normally they end up falling asleep again with Cas inside of Dean.

Inappropriate sex: Sam once called Dean a sex pest and as he rides Cas on the kitchen table he kind of sees his point. Cas loves sex like this, that thrill they might get caught, the whispered moans and hand pressed to mouths as they take what they need from each other. Cas has a public sex kink and Dean is more than happy to indulge when Castiel leads Dean’s hands to his wet hole and asks him to fuck him in the bathroom.

Vanilla sex: missionary position.  Dean wrapped around Cas, his legs rucked against the dip of Castiel’s hips, his arms holding on to him. It’s raw emotion and ‘I need you’ and Cas coming with a hitched sob ‘I love you, I need you.’

arasiriel:

So. The discussion came up in a Destiel group and I figured, “What the hell. This could be interesting and I have never seen it cross my dash… EVER.” This isn’t a debate, this is just about choice/how you see it personally. There are three categories:

1) This one.

2) Bottom!Dean [X]

3) Bottom!Cas [X]

Just pick the one YOU prefer most and then pass it along. Let’s see which tends to be the Destiel Fandom fave.

Again, THIS IS NOT A DEBATE OR COMPETITION. Just a project to see which leaning is predominate. Being a Destiel FanFiction writer and artist, this is of particular interest to me personally too.

If you are anti-Destiel or this isn’t your kind of thing, DON’T REBLOG OR REPLY IN ANYWAY WAY. This wasn’t meant for you in the first place. 

Thank you!!! 

- Ara Claire