Happy New Years Elms /squishes/ thanks for everything you helped me through last year. You're an angel really. I'm so happy to know you <3

<3 <3 <3 <3 All the love for you, friend. All the wonderful, wonderful love. <3

MERRY LATE CHRISTMAS ELMIE! /hugs/ I hope it was amazing ♥

my Boxing Day was more fun, since we had people over, and I socialised with someone other than my immediate family for the first time since mid-October, but yes!! Christmas was enjoyable! sunshine and store sales!!!

thank you so much for this message. I hope your Christmas was an absolute delight as well~ <3

cassammydean:

I am actually very sick of reading fics where they describe Dean as being a blond. He has brown hair. /Brown/! light brown at most. But his hair is brooooowwwwnnnnn not freaking blond omg. If I was on my computer I would put two pictures side by side demonstrating the difference between Deans hair colour and blond. So instead, please google it.
And if you argue dark blond I will flip a table.

I swear the last 3 stories I’ve read they’ve described him as blond and I cringe.

Apologies. It’s 2am and I’m in bed sleepily reading this fic and it came up. So I’m just, tired and grumpy.

Please tell me I’m not the only one who doesn’t understand this blond thing that people came up with?

Okay I gotta ask! When you plan a new story, do you think to yourself "What new kink should I explore with them this time?" Because I think it's actually so wonderful that you do bring something new with each new story. It's not plain ol' vanilla with you. I mean, we had The Kink That Must Not Be Named, Somnophilia, pet play, doctor kink + others, do you plan it most times? or simply go with how you feel they are written at the time? If you don't mind me asking of course, I'm really curious :)

ehehehehehehehehe. ehehe. nope.

there’s no big plan. I just happen to think that if I’m gonna write a kink, I may as well go all-out. although, I do decide beforehand that a particular kink might work with the story, which usually (always) ends up defining some part of Dean and Castiel’s relationship.

sometimes I just love a kink and feel like it’s not used enough in fanfic - or ever in fanfic?? there’s legitimately a few things I’ve written that I’ve never read about beyond maybe a wikipedia article. but I think a great part of being a writer is that you learn to take 0.5 of a piece of information and turn it into a plot point. and I find I have a lot of general intuition about things I have little real basis for knowing.

98% of the things I’ve written in my stories are things I’ve never experienced. I’m aromantic and asexual, uneducated, inexperienced, and vanilla as heck, and I rarely leave my bedroom, but I find it easy to write interesting people in worlds filled with romantic love and sex and fantastic events. I’m always delighted when people tell me certain things are accurate, given I’m literally guessing about what they would feel like.

anyway. I said nope, but now I’m actually thinking, yeah. I should just pick a kink and run with it. see where it goes. hmmmmm. this actually gives me ideas for a Christmas fic I was stuck on until just now. OH MY GOD. WING KINK?? OKAY I HAVEN’T DONE THAT IN LIKE 4 YEARS. I THINK IT’S TIME.

thank you, Roo. you’ve just fixed a problem I was stuck on for over a week, driving myself mad with frustration. I love how simple writing solutions are when you think about something completely different for a while!! =u=

time for some fic links! (my fics feature some of this stuff so often that I’ve most likely forgotten to mention some)

somnophilia » Held in Your Tender Hands // Love Him in His Sleep (Love Him Always)

doctor!kink » Sexier Than Doctor Sexy // Delirium and Doctor Sexy

pet play » Dean Winchester the Puppydog

the kink that must not be named (srsly don’t even ask) (if you must know it’s pee kink) » Foxfire Blossom

priest!kink » Hello Night // Preacher Comfort

authority/uniform!kink » Sexier Than Doctor Sexy // Sharing the Rain Dog // Drop Anchor

wing!kink » Play Nice, Kids // Angelhawke // Love Him in His Sleep (Love Him Always)

comeplay » Angelhawke // Try-Something Tuesday (? I forget) // Bad Things With You

accidental voyeurism » Angelhawke // Sam Accidentally Sees the Whole Picture (I’m so sorry, Sammy)

dom/sub » Shadows Across the Camera Lens // Dean Winchester the Puppydog // Foxfire Blossom

food » Lettuce Share This Moment // Hart of the Storm // Drop Anchor (mango pulp as lube? does that count?)

parenting …is this even a kink? » Nobody’s Daddy // Father Material // Sharing the Rain Dog

if that’s a kink then here’s one for domestic grossness » #ThankYouSammy // Take You To The Country // Drop Anchor // Snow Place Like Home (But My Home Is With You) // Of Shampoo and Fruit Flies // Try-Something Tuesday // Cherry Pink Wedding // Sharing the Rain Dog

possession » Sharing Hands // Hello Night

tiny/big » Faerie Strange Circumstances // The Tailor of Fairy Ridge (or just plain tiny: Our Garden Home (wip))

animals???? not bestiality but still » Bad Things With You // Dean Winchester the Puppydog // Roost // Angelhawke // The Feline Perspective of a Guilty Conscience // In Which Dean Frogs Up // The Literal Bear Hug

genderfuckery, crossdressing, feminisation » Boutique du Ballet // Winchester’s Rouge // Snow Place Like Home (But My Home Is With You) // Held in Your Tender Hands // Shadows Across the Camera Lens // For a Scarf in October (and SO MANY others - nearly every fic - because Dean in panties is a thing I love, and hey, fuck gender ideals)

whatever the hell these are » Manscaping (shaving, blood, awkward boners and hurt/comfort??) // What’s a Hickey? (marking) // Cowboys and Real Estate Angels (cowboy!Dean, panties, lovemaking with strangers) // Waiting For That Final Moment (polyamory isn’t exactly a kink idk)

oh god I give up, there’s too many. if you want something kinky just look at these 58 fics right here and pick something at random. if cuddling is a kink to you then nearly all of my fics have that because I’m a total sap. but at this moment in time I feel like throwing some more out there:

cuddling » Of All the Bars in the World (There Are None Between Us) // Love Him in His Sleep (Love Him Always) // Understanding Your Body in Ten Easy Steps // Sam Accidentally Sees the Whole Picture // Snow Place Like Home (But My Home Is With You) // Preacher Comfort

oh dear god I need to stop

You probably get sick of me repeating myself, but your themes, man. YOUR THEMES. UGH. DKJAHGKJHDG. I feel like a little kid getting excited to see what you come up with next. It looks awesome. You're beautiful art and your manips. pls stop being perf (neverstop)

I don’t think I could ever get sick of you saying anything to me~ thank you so very much, I loooove decorating new themes, and it’s extra special now I know I’m not the only one excited about new ones <3 <3 <3

cassammydean:

how to platonically pour your bro a drink

cassammydean:

Adorable “Talented” Dorks “ヽ(´▽`)ノ”

cassammydean:

Bonus: 

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cassammydean:

Picturing Cas snuggled up in Sam’s room watching Netflix makes me happy.

The hello kitty bad was from the valets (jessie) friend's purse that she said she couldn't find :)

Anonymous said: I think the hello kitty bag was Jessie’s friends purse that she couldn’t find

selfyoudiedayearago said: Nah, the purse was the one Jessie (Valet Girl)’s friend left in the car.

OH. OF COURSE. thanks guys. c:

cassammydean:

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