Anonymous asked:
Hi! I love your writing because you always handle different kinks and being ace and/or on the autism spectrum so well. Being ace + having a kink myself it's really great to see myself respresented plus you somehow to handle all sexual experiences so well that even without the kink I see the appeal in it and it's always so sensual etc! I have a question too: do you plan on exploring any more new kinks or kinks you've already written but want to write again? Which ones?

eeee this question is exciting!! UMMM let’s see

firstly, yes, i will undoubtedly write new kinks in the future.

although i’ve looked lists of kinks for inspiration in the past, i’ve never found inspiration that way, i don’t think i’ve ever actually chosen a kink and decided “yes i’ll write this now”. usually i let a concept settle in my thoughts and it’ll pop up when i least expect it, while working on a new fic. (exactly what happened with dean’s thing for spanking in Welcome All Winchesters).

usually, when planning a story, the characters’ kinks and fetishes often just develop as the story develops, until revealing them becomes a natural progression of events. i construct the world around the plot, and the plot around whatever issues the characters need to confront. a kink is usually a way to strengthen the relationship or reveal new secrets, or get a character to open up.

i think i’m up for writing pretty much anything. bloodplay is one my squicks and yet i kind of write it a fluffy way in Manscaping?? i think the only thing i might avoid are hardcore violent things just because i’ve written graphic violence in the past (Angelhawke holy shit, Meg torturing Cas?? definitely sexually charged, and I don’t even think that was properly warned for. i need to re-read the fic and revise the warnings on that thing) and for the last few years i just… haven’t been in the mood for writing violence. i think i wrote all the anger out of me and now i’m just a fluffbunny.

i’ll most likely return comfortably to somnophilia, since i connect that with cas so much, and he’s my favourite to write, on par with dean. 

two others that do come to mind: choking/breathplay is one i also didn’t put into WAW despite planning to, but will probably try writing it in the semi-near future. also, if i did mpreg it would probably be in a non-kinky non-sexual way from the perspective of a trans character, so that doesn’t really count.

will almost certainly return to: medical kink (a la Sexier Than Doctor Sexy), animal roleplay/pet play (Dean Winchester the Puppydog), all kinds of variations on the “not gay but you’re weirdly hot”/”oh shit i have a boner for my nonbinary friend”/”no homo but do you wanna make out” tropes (Fight and Fool Around)… which aren’t really a kink but they’re the #1 thing that makes me flustered…. so…… yup.

i’ve written desperation kink/omorashi/not-quite-watersports in Foxfire Blossom (chapters 11, 19 & 23, if you’re curious) and there’s hiiiints of it in Welcome All Winchesters but it’s not written in a sexual way. i was originally planning a short ficlet about it, but it ended up merged with WAW instead - so maybe someday i’ll write another one? not sure. again, it’ll probably be mushed into a long fic, because it’s one of those things where a lot of people will not even want to understand unless they’re invested in the story. it’s always in people’s top 5 squicks, which is less than encouraging if i actually want people to read something with more depth beyond the kink.

things i’ve never been especially interested in include, firstly, a/b/o dynamics (i just don’t get the hype - this despite animal-type mating rituals & dominance being a thing i love dearly (Bad Things With You oh man this one needs some editing)). second: there’ll be hints or themes of bdsm in a few fics but i doubt i’ll ever write a bdsm-centric fic. (thinking about this some more, i might be saying this because i don’t yet have in mind a complete story with developed characters who share this interest, and i have next to zero interest in anything unless i’m invested in the characters. maybe someday i’ll find a place for it.)

tl;dr – yes, i will write nearly anything in the right context. hopefully i’ll be doing what i’m doing now for a long time in the future, and i’ll cover ALL the bases. slowly.

i hope that answers your question?

p.s. i’m more inclined to write a kink if i discover that one or many of my readers are interested in it, because i like to write for A Theoretical Person and if that person is one (or two) random follower(s) who’s into a tickle kink (you know who you are) then it kind of makes me want to write that thing more. *clears throat* Tickle Fight Wasteland *cough cough* (nobody asked for that. i just happened to provide.)

p.p.s. also. slightly off-topic. ages and ages ago i was researching some kink for some reason or another, and came across the term “CBT”. i googled it, got “cognitive behavioural therapy”. and i read that wiki page, and i was like… okay… there’s a kink for therapy… that’s cool. and i thought it was like a mind-control dominance/submission trust-building thing. and a few weeks ago someone on snapchat said they heartily recommended cognitive behavioural therapy to help with depression. and i was like, neat! kinky stuff has practical use in coping with mental health issues!! and literally just now i found a page calling CBT “cock and ball torture”. and now i feel like a fool, but omg i’m laughing BUT ALSO I cANnoT beLieVe– therapy kink. i genuinely thought people got off on talking about their feelings. (uh. that said… it still sounds legit. this is basically all my fics. oh shit it’s me)

Jensen Panel – Paraphrasing and out of order, but…

rosegoldrebels:

+ Jensen may have not been completely sober… Said fuck on stage, stripped out of his jacket (twice), and went off on quite a few long tangents.
+ Threw shade to Timothy for drinking coffee at 5pm, said 5pm is “Apple juice time.”
+ Almost gave a spoiler for the season finale, had to ask us what’s happened so far on the show before he would share details about the scene. When crowd told Jensen what’s happened so far, he said, “Yeah, hasn’t happened yet.”
+ Jensen talked about how there’s a lot of changes going on in the crew/writers, etc. Spoke highly of Andrew Dabb. Said we shouldn’t have reason to need to be forgiving of what’s to come with him at the helm.
+ Jensen would like to film a scene where he confronts John about “taking his childhood”. – Talks about the fact that Sam had an imaginary friend and Dean didn’t and it was because he didn’t really have a childhood. Instead he was his father’s apprentice, his student. Mentioned at the time, Dean thought it was good to get out of school and what not, but later in life he realized it wasn’t okay.
+ Question was asked about the difference between Sam and Dean’s reaction to Cas saying “yes” and being possessed by Lucifer. Jensen said that Sam may have been more focused on the bigger picture while Dean was focused on Cas and whether or not he was coming back, whether or not he’d be a part of the team again. Said if Cas wasn’t coming back, that’s a loss Dean would not deal with well.
+ Waxed poetic often about fans and SPN family etc.
+ When asked if he would be in a DC or Marvel film, which one/who. Whatever it is, not too tight. Something with a big flowy cape. “I’m leather man.” He said.
+ Misha came on stage (after asking a question. Jensen asked where Misha was from, Misha said, “India Russia.”), Jensen asked, “Did you come to relieve me?” Misha said, “No, we don’t do that!” Jensen asked the crowd to turn away for a minute.
+ When his panel was over and Misha’s was beginning, Jensen asked if he had to leave.

I’m sure I’ve missed things and not everything is quoted 100% directly, but there you go.

cocklestrash:

Crossing the streams

strengthcas:

“I want you to think about this important question that the little, short little video, that you just watched brings up. Which is… Why didn’t Jensen wash his hands?”

mishasminions:

THESE TWO I SWEAR TO GOD #YOUARENEVERALONEJENSEN

puppycastiel:

Just a few days left to support the You Are Not Alone campaign!

Anonymous asked:
Jensen and Misha in a bathroom for a YANA video, my life has gotten brighter 😌 (it's on Misha's facebook)

oH GOD NO

i need a second to prepare before i go find that 

…oH GOD I JUST

THE FIRST FRAME.

MISHA WHY THE FUCK 

I HAD TO PAUSE AND COLLECT MYSELF

…who the hell flushes before they stand up 

and that’s a very good question WHY DIDN’T JENSEN WASH HIS HANDS

THAT’S Agjsdgj

i can’t fucking deal with this why does this exist whY IS HE MAKING US THINK ABOUT THIS

WHY IS HE DOING THIS TO US

pecanpiedean:

misha you little shit

sizzlebutt:

The “Crossing Streams” Joke aka Jensen putting his head on Misha’s Shoulder XD

Jensen’s trick to shaking that one off is to talk sarcastically about the weather

castiel-knight-of-hell:

mamawantswinchesters:

almaasi:

boazpriestly:

novaks:

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Dude, it was a fucking Ghostbusters reference. 

Yeah, but it’s not exactly the first time Misha’s referenced kinky pee sex. I wouldn’t put it past him.

Thing is, the Ghostbusters phrase about Crossing Streams was very quickly turned into the “dick-sword-fight-in-the-bathroom” thing. The movie was in the 80’s. I’m willing to bet it turned into a reference for gay sex possibly that SAME WEEKEND… unless the gay version came first and the Ghostbusters writers (check it, they also acted in it), KNEW about it and cleverly disguised it…

but that would take BALLS. Especially in 1984.

But then, these guys were famous for their adult-humour sketches. I wouldn’t put it past them….

When I was growing up (and I’m in the same generation as Jensen and Misha) this was simply a joke about guys goofing off while peeing. If someone had to clean a filthy mens room they’d comment that guys had to be crossing streams to get pee in so many places. I’ve known dudebros who said that if someone stood at the urinal next to them they’d joke about crossing streams just to see the other guy roll his eyes. There were even stories about guys who would set a small item in the bottom of the urinal then cross streams as part of a contest to see who could knock it down. For most of my life crossing streams has been part of dudebro culture, it didn’t get dubbed as “looks gay” until recently.