why aren’t there porn videos of just people kissing? why must porn always have the grossness and vapidity and unbelievable carnality of fucking. why can’t we have schmoopy videos of people lying in a bed together being happy and smiley and giggling when one of them tickles the other’s cheeks with their hair by accident, or videos where they scoot closer and closer along a couch, slide their hands together, sigh and relax against their partner’s warmth, and turn their faces together… then a gentle shot of their eyes meeting, lips parting; tiny, smirky smiles, a tentative lean in - and their lips meet…! and it’s sweet and wonderful and everyone feels warm and fuzzy inside. then just… explore, deepen the kiss. touch a little. smile about it. why must porn be the way it is. just. I WANT NICE THINGS.